Booked with Intention: Why I Only Say Yes to Events That Feel Meant to Be

by Elise Campbell

One of the most powerful shifts I’ve made in my photography business is this:
I only say yes to events that feel aligned.
That might sound a little “woo-woo,” but hear me out.

After years of photographing everything that came my way—from formal celebrations to backyard birthday parties—I’ve learned that the most meaningful images, the ones that stop time and truly matter, come when I’m in a space that feels right. A space where connection, creativity, and authenticity are front and center.

So now? I only book events that feel like they’re meant to be for me and my clients.

What That Means to Me

Saying yes with intention means:

• Working with people who value storytelling and soul, not just a shot list

• Choosing events where I feel like part of the celebration, not just hired help

• Prioritizing work that aligns with my values—inclusion, joy, and belonging

That’s why some of my absolute favorite bookings are LGBTQ+ weddings, elopements, and milestone events. There’s something incredibly sacred about photographing moments where people are fully themselves, surrounded by chosen family and unapologetic love. It’s not about performance. It’s not about perfection.
It’s about truth.

And that’s exactly the kind of energy I bring to every session I photograph.

It’s Not About Being Exclusive—It’s About Being Present

I’m not saying no to be exclusive.

I’m saying no so I can say a full-body YES to the clients who are a true fit. When we’re aligned—when you’re excited to share your vision and trust me to bring it to life—the experience and the images are out of this world.

These are the sessions where the magic happens.
Where the photos feel like you.
Where we both walk away knowing: that was exactly right.

So, Who’s a Good Fit?

If you're planning an event that’s rooted in love, creativity, and community—whether it’s a queer wedding in nature, a joyful family reunion, a 100th Birthday Celebration, a Mother Blessing, a day to uplift a teen, or a soulful brand launch—I’d love to hear from you.

Let’s make sure it feels aligned.
Let’s make sure it’s a hell yes for both of us.

Because when it’s meant to be, we both know it.